Never could i have thought the word love is as easy as how people say or feel in those malay drama. They always emphasise either being in love after marraige or being in love as u know couple. But they rarely or i could say maybe 1% chances they pay attention love of friendship or loving yrself. Love of friendship i could go on about tht at the another post. However, wht i feel tht before being in love or searching for love or want to be in love, taking the next step to another level like marraige, u have to actually have to learn and understand to love yrself. Basically know about yrself and be confident. I know is cliché but is real. Stop and think, for u to love yourself u have to learn to know what u really want in life, correct the wrong doings tht uve done, seeing things at another perspective, learn u accept the hardship that ure going through cause u know everything happens for a reason.